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Control Your Fear Before It Will Control You!

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By:  Ivan Cavric  "Fear Factor" has been one of my favorite TV shows. It highlights the courage of the participants to engage in the most fearsome and disgusting acts.  Most of the contestants are willing to sacrifice their dignity for the sake of the prize money. So what does that imply?  It implies that with the proper mindset, determination, and will power, you can conquer your fear.  Everyone has some sort of fear. It may be brought about by any one or more of the following reasons. by a traumatic past incident (like being bitten by a dog) by the influence of other people by their own negative way of thinking But are you going to let fear take over your life? Will you remain a hostage of your fear forever?   You must take the necessary steps to overcome your fright. It's all in the mind.   Do you envy other people when you see them enjoying wild rides, and you're just stuck in a corner because you're too terrified to give it a try? My sug...

Fame, Money, And Success Will Not Take Away Your Fears

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By:  Ivan Cavric Your fears, anxieties, and other problems have the best of you and you don't know where to turn for help. At some point you feel totally helpless as you struggle each day. As a layman and an author of a Managing Fear book, there were times that my fears had the best of me. One of the things that I've learned is that you can have all the money in the world and be well known by many people, but when it comes down to it, none of it matters when it comes to dealing with your persistent fears and anxieties. Fame, money, and success will not take away your fears. The one source that a person should use as a basis in managing their fears and anxieties is using God/Jesus as a basis in dealing with their fears. Why? The power of God is the one power that is stronger than your fears and anxieties. Also, God loves each one of us and he is the one person who has the power to solve all of our problems. He will help you if you ask him to.   The first step a person should do...

How Fears Develop

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By:  Ivan Cavric There have been talks about fears and phobias, and how they affect life. Fear is really the misconception, the rejection, and the dread of life.   There are thousands of life definitions available around. Often, these meanings seek or require a happy, if not perfect, life in this world. We are urged to seek out a paradise or a niche of refuge where we can build our utopia or ideal world. However what really is life? If we honestly study human drama in history, we would see that real life is the concoction of good and bad, sad and happy. How to be happy in all these circumstances is what you make out of your life. We all create our life meanings. We cannot just borrow others meanings or get one from a book. We discover real life through actual life encounters. How we end up after each ordeal gives us our real life. Life is a concoction of both extremes. Real life entails going through these ordeals. When you reject this idea and look for other life me...